Standing up for what you believe in is one of the most important
skills you'll need in life. People in life will always try to knock you
down, but as long as you get back up, you're showing them that you can
stand for what you believe in. If you're being bullied, it's probably just because the bully is jealous of you. You should always remember that you're powerful and can conquer anything. Be strong!
STEP 1
To keep bullies at bay and to prevent future bullying, kids need to know how to stand up to a bully. Aside from developing their assertiveness skills, building their self-esteem and improving their social skills, they also need practical tools on how to handle bullying situations.
STEP 2
Avoid bullying hot spots. Sometimes all it takes to prevent bullying is to avoid places where bullies hang out. These bullying hot spots include areas like the far corners of the playground, vacant hallways, bathrooms, locker rooms and the back of the bus. Be sure your child knows where these spots are located and that he/she avoids them or travels with a buddy when possible.
STEP 3
To keep bullies at bay and to prevent future bullying, kids need to know how to stand up to a bully. Aside from developing their assertiveness skills, building their self-esteem and improving their social skills, they also need practical tools on how to handle bullying situations.
STEP 2
Avoid bullying hot spots. Sometimes all it takes to prevent bullying is to avoid places where bullies hang out. These bullying hot spots include areas like the far corners of the playground, vacant hallways, bathrooms, locker rooms and the back of the bus. Be sure your child knows where these spots are located and that he/she avoids them or travels with a buddy when possible.
STEP 3
Learn to ignore them. No matter how hard
this is, it is more mature. They want to get a reaction from you, so don't grant them your
attention.
STEP 4
Report the bullying to an adult. Be sure your child
knows that the best way to prevent bullying is to report it. Without
adult intervention, bullying often will continue or escalate. Make sure you
also talk about the reasons why kids don’t tell others they are being bullied
and be sure your children know that you understand their fears. Stress
that while it takes a lot of strength and courage to report bullying, it
is the smartest way to handle this type of situation.
Build self-esteem. Self-esteem is a core component of bullying
prevention. Kids with a healthy self-esteem are more confident and
capable. Self-esteem also can help prevent bullying. Bullies are often
looking for an easy target – someone who will react to their taunts and
teases.
- If you are being bullied, often it is best to get a teacher or parent involved from the start rather than taking matters in to your own hands, especially if you are dealing with a group of bullies.
- Remember to ask the adult to deal with the problem without letting your enemies know that it was you who told them.
- Remember to never let the person who made fun of you know that they made you sad. Instead, you have to act confident and give them a sign that you don't care what they think about you.
